do you think he knows the person he’d like to marry?”
This is where our conversation led to last night at dinner, my boy and me. O shared that Nyan at school was married to another Grandi, Charlene. He was pretty sure you don’t know who you are going to marry at 4. But I wanted to know if he had any idea who he would marry and without hesitation he screwed his eyes shut tight and declared, “NO! I don’t want to get married!” Oh. “But you can’t have kids if you aren’t married, buddy. Don’t you want kids? “No. I just wanna make a mess. And drink soda. And eat soda crackers {which we heard about in Little House} And eat candy!”

There you have it. He’s got it all figured out.